
You want to…
be fully present in every moment of your Engagement Season and Wedding Day.
feel an abundance of JOY instead of the persisting overwhelm from decision and communication fatigue.
have a wedding that leaves you and your guests in awe because the design is so undeniably you.
have a trusted concierge that tailors your experience to what works best for you, while always upholding exceptional white glove customer service.
enjoy a cohesive and no stone un-turned approach that leads to a foundational yet elevated experience for you and your guest.
WELL FRIEND, You are in the right place!

“I would recommend, if you need an amazing planner, to use Betty Jane because you would be working with one of the best!” -John F, Lighting and Entertainment, 2022
What experience will you draw from the hatbox?


The Pack Your Hat Experience
Destination + Full-Service Wedding Weekend
Do you wish your Wedding celebration could last more than just one day? Whether your guests are traveling from afar, or you envision spending more than just a few hours mingling during cocktail hour with your loved ones, why not curate a remarkable experience over the course of a few days?
The Pack Your Hat Experience will leave a lifelong impression on you and your guests to reminisce on for decades later. Through high touch planning and white glove service, the entire weekend of Wedding events will be hand crafted and orchestrated seamlessly, leaving you to wear that shiny crown from the moment you deboard the airplane to the final farewell after your post Wedding brunch and spa day. You won’t lift a finger, unless of course it’s to raise that glass of Dom Perignon.
Planning around rules and regulations for marrying across State and Country lines, travel block accommodations, transportation, inventory travel, detailed vendor meetings, and support with the extra level of detail that destination weddings demand, is just a glimpse behind the curtain at what the Pack Your Hat Experience entails.
The Red Hat Experience
Full-Service Wedding Design + Styling + Planning + Execution
You said the best YES ever!! But now you are living through what feels like an endless realm of possibilities flowing through your head! Your Pinterest board has images from when you were planning your dream wedding at sixteen, modge podged together with the latest trends. They don’t seem to correlate at all. Also, where are we even getting married? First I have to pick a date and are they even available? How do I know what flowers are in season? And wedding day- How in the world does it all tie together?
Those that have no idea where to begin their journey or don’t have the time or desire to adopt a second (unpaid) full time job? I’ve got your back!
The Red Hat Experience is our all-inclusive wedding planning package- a white glove service where together we hand-craft a cohesive design authentically tailored to the wedding of your dreams. Once your custom design is established, this experience ensures the remaining 2000+ minuscule details are planned exceptionally. All elements of the journey will be seamlessly stitched together leaving you to pick up your jaw from the floor at the reception reveal on your wedding day. You can be involved as little or as much as you like, but you be guided every step of the way!


The Feather in the Hat Experience
Partial Wedding Planning + Execution
You have planned and worked hours on end to think up your beautiful day – Now you are wondering how in the world you are going to enjoy your day with all of the final details and stress of execution looming over you??
The few months leading up to your wedding you deserve to embrace your final moments as a fiancé, not spend your time worrying that your Wedding party will be decorating your reception space and loading in alcohol for the open bar.
This experience supports you during the last phase of your wedding planning
journey and is there to cross all the T’s and dot all the I’s. You are able to
relax and rest assured that all of the hard
work you have planned, will executed beautifully.
“A customer is the most important visitor on our premises. He is not dependent on us. We are dependent on him. He is not an interruption in our work. He is the purpose of it. He is not an outsider in our business. He is part of it. We are not doing him a favor by serving him. He is doing us a favor by giving us an opportunity to do so.”
– Kenneth B. Elliott

“Betsy was SO great to work with from beginning to end. As a wedding florist, Betty Jane & CO is the experience you hope you get with a planner/coordinator.
– Jessica, Florist, 2022
Betty Jane and CO
Through the all-inclusive wedding packages in North Carolina, Betty Jane and CO, a Globally Certified Designer, Stylist, and Planner, creates Joyful Weddings for the Heartfelt couple.